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IN THE NAME OF LOVE
Where singles are looking for love in the digital world
With Valentine's Day on the way, no one wants to be left cuddling up to a pillow on what really should be known as Singles Awareness Day. It seems to be getting harder to find someone who cares about more than how many Jäger bombs they can down or isn't going to make you watch Battlestar Galactica marathons on a Friday night. For Gen Ys, who can no longer rely on that Beckett seminar or Orgo lab as places to meet their future mates, the hunt for love is still thriving online. And for those for whom Match.com doesn't cut it, there are a number of alternatives:
Urban Signals: When even the other side of the city can seem too far, nothing is more deflating to a would-be dater than when a site leads them to a perfect mate-in-waiting who, they come to find out, lives on the other side of the country. This location-based mobile app alerts you, in real-time, when ready-to-mingle singles are within close proximity. By posting a quick profile, you won't let those Missed Connections in the park slip through the cracks. Send an innocent "signal" - essentially the equivalent of a Facebook "poke" - to that girl you sat next to on the train; if she reciprocates, that means she's willing to talk and hopefully meet at the coffee shop around the corner. But just like Facebook, Urban Signals isn't going to find your match unless they too have the app on their superphone.
BeautifulPeople: Tired of uploading page after page of ugos on eHarmony? Maybe you'll fare a little better on this private online community for the genetically-blessed. Lest you think the site is propagating the same inhumane standards of the fashion industry, any unreasonable aesthetic biases can be blamed on its members who are, in fact, the ones defining "beauty" here. To merely become a member of this dating site you have to be voted in by members of the opposite sex. But don't think that once you're in, you're safe to slack on your looks, because after this past holiday season they gave the axe to 5,000 members, reportedly banning them for gaining too much fruit cake weight. What we can't understand is why any self-respecting romance seeker would post said photos of themselves with double chins and love handles poking out from under the sides of their oxford buttondowns?
OkTrends: For all those people looking for love and continually falling short, this blog distributes free reports tracking online dating trends, often dispelling common myths of how to find a mate online. Even if you're not looking for love, the analysis on what makes a "good" profile picture is something to which we can all relate; who knew that women smile twice as much as men do in their pictures? The blog also conducted an (informal) study, the results of which show that your inbox success is directly proportional to how potential suitors perceive your attractiveness. So, maybe you should be spending less time crafting that 'about me' paragraph, and more time in the mirror finding your best angle, after all.

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